fix(dolt): batch all IN-clause queries to prevent full table scans

[sfncore]

Summary

• Adds query batching (batch size 200) to all remaining unbatched IN-clause queries in the Dolt storage layer
• Fixes 8 query sites across events.go, issues.go, labels.go, wisps.go, dependencies.go, queries.go, and cmd/bd/doctor/deep.go
• Uses the existing doltBuildSQLInClause() helper and queryBatchSize constant already established in the codebase

Problem

Large IN clauses (100+ IDs) cause Dolt to perform full table scans even when primary key indexes exist. With 700+ beads, bd list was taking 60-300s due to unbatched comment count, label, and event queries.

Changes

1. events.go — getCommentCountsInto: batch comment count aggregation
2. issues.go — getIssueLabelsInto: batch label lookups
3. labels.go — GetLabelsByIDs: batch label fetches
4. wisps.go — getWispLabelsInto: batch wisp label lookups
5. dependencies.go — FindNewlyUnblockedIssues: batch candidate blocked-by checks
6. queries.go — GetMoleculeProgress: batch child status fetches
7. queries.go — GetMoleculeLastActivity: batch ORDER BY LIMIT 1 queries, tracking max across batches
8. doctor/deep.go — molecule broken children check: batch with local constant

Test plan

• go build ./internal/storage/dolt/ — clean
• go build ./cmd/bd/ — clean (v0.58.0 dev)
• Installed and tested on production instance with 700+ beads — bd list completes in seconds

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[steveyegge]

Review: Go code looks good, but .beads/backup/ changes must be reverted

Go changes - Good

The batching logic across all 8 query sites is correct and well-implemented:

• Properly uses the existing doltBuildSQLInClause() helper and queryBatchSize constant
• Correct rows.Close() handling inside loops (avoids defer-in-loop)
• GetMoleculeLastActivity correctly tracks max across batches

Minor nit: dependencies.go GetNewlyUnblockedByClose drops the blockedRows.Err() check that the original code had after the scan loop. Not critical but worth adding back for correctness.

.beads/backup/ changes - Must be removed

This PR includes changes to 7 files under .beads/backup/ that replace the project backup data with what appears to be your local test instance data:

• backup_state.json: 2290 issues to 3
• dependencies.jsonl: 8122 entries to 2
• comments.jsonl: wiped entirely
• config.jsonl: several key-value entries removed (architecture-overview, release-process, test-infra, user-preferences, sync.mode)
• events.jsonl, issues.jsonl, labels.jsonl: similarly truncated

This accounts for ~14,175 of the 14,371 deletions. These changes would destroy production backup data if merged.

Please revert all .beads/backup/ changes. The Go code itself is ready to merge once those are removed.

[steveyegge]

Rebased onto main and merged via temp-merge-2329