[CONNECT-2858] Update build script to fail with a clear error if a tag exists already

[yziubrytska-wise]

Context

We have a releaseTag job which is running on main only and fails if a tag already exists on origin. Let's introduce a separate validation step and notify a user if a tag needs bumping.

Checklist

• Change meets or does not compromise the Baseline Security Requirements

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