Update RPM spec for changes in examples and cmake

[space88man]

Description

Update RPM spec.in precursor:

• changes in example/ files
• copy wolfssl/options.h to the -devel package (tracks what Debian does in its libwolfssl-dev package)
• cmake artifact breadcrumbs

Testing

On Fedora 44 (vanilla):

sh autogen.sh
./configure 
make dist
cp wolfssl-5.9.1.tar.gz ~/rpmbuild/SOURCES
rpmbuild -ba rpm/spec

On Fedora 44 (copy Debian flags; add PKCS#11 RSA padding ops):

sh autogen.sh
./configure --enable-distro --enable-ech --enable-hpke --enable-jni \
    --enable-jobserver=no --enable-memcached --enable-quic --enable-qt --enable-pkcs11 \
    --enable-writedup --disable-asm --disable-crl-monitor --disable-examples \
    --disable-silent-rules EXTRA_CFLAGS=-DWOLF_CRYPTO_CB_RSA_PAD

make dist
cp wolfssl-5.9.1.tar.gz ~/rpmbuild/SOURCES
rpmbuild -ba rpm/spec

Checklist

N/A

• added tests
• updated/added doxygen
• updated appropriate READMEs
• Updated manual and documentation

[wolfSSL-Bot]

Can one of the admins verify this patch?

[dgarske]

Okay to test. Contributor agreement on file. Thank you @space88man

[github-actions]

MemBrowse Memory Report

No memory changes detected for:

• gcc-arm-cortex-m4- gcc-arm-cortex-m4-baremetal- gcc-arm-cortex-m4-min-ecc- gcc-arm-cortex-m4-tls12