stable-25-3-1: Fix stucking SelfHealNodesStateUpdate cmd

[ydbot]

Cherry-pick:

• commit fb1fb25: Fix stucking SelfHealNodesStateUpdate cmd

PR was created by cherry-pick workflow run

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⚪ 2025-10-24 17:31:57 UTC Pre-commit check linux-x86_64-relwithdebinfo for 45e4faa has started.
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🟡 2025-10-24 19:08:52 UTC Some tests failed, follow the links below. Going to retry failed tests...

Ya make output | Test bloat

TESTS	PASSED	ERRORS	FAILED	SKIPPED	MUTED?
38481	35808	0	5	2650	18

⚪ 2025-10-24 19:12:20 UTC ya make is running... (failed tests rerun, try 2)
🟢 2025-10-24 19:30:22 UTC Tests successful.

Ya make output | Test bloat | Test bloat

TESTS	PASSED	ERRORS	FAILED	SKIPPED	MUTED?
543 (only retried tests)	526	0	0	0	17

🟢 2025-10-24 19:30:31 UTC Build successful.
🟢 2025-10-24 19:30:46 UTC ydbd size 2.3 GiB changed* by +496 Bytes, which is < 100.0 KiB vs stable-25-3-1: OK

ydbd size dash	stable-25-3-1: 1475b25	merge: 45e4faa	diff	diff %
ydbd size	2 432 889 056 Bytes	2 432 889 552 Bytes	+496 Bytes	+0.000%
ydbd stripped size	521 156 104 Bytes	521 156 232 Bytes	+128 Bytes	+0.000%

^{*please be aware that the difference is based on comparing your commit and the last completed build from the post-commit, check comparation}

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⚪ 2025-10-24 17:33:07 UTC Pre-commit check linux-x86_64-release-asan for 45e4faa has started.
⚪ 2025-10-24 17:33:22 UTC Artifacts will be uploaded here
⚪ 2025-10-24 17:37:04 UTC ya make is running...
🟡 2025-10-24 19:47:54 UTC Some tests failed, follow the links below. This fail is not in blocking policy yet

Ya make output | Test bloat

TESTS	PASSED	ERRORS	FAILED	SKIPPED	MUTED?
15819	15257	0	218	322	22

🟢 2025-10-24 19:49:11 UTC Build successful.
🟢 2025-10-24 19:49:35 UTC ydbd size 3.8 GiB changed* by +704 Bytes, which is < 100.0 KiB vs stable-25-3-1: OK

ydbd size dash	stable-25-3-1: 1475b25	merge: 45e4faa	diff	diff %
ydbd size	4 047 842 928 Bytes	4 047 843 632 Bytes	+704 Bytes	+0.000%
ydbd stripped size	1 507 906 752 Bytes	1 507 907 072 Bytes	+320 Bytes	+0.000%

^{*please be aware that the difference is based on comparing your commit and the last completed build from the post-commit, check comparation}

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🟢 2025-10-24 17:41:35 UTC The validation of the Pull Request description is successful.