fix: o(n) requests on project switch + perisstance

[k11kirky]

TL;DR

Improved project selection logic and optimized query cache clearing when switching projects.

closes #798

What changed?

• Enhanced project selection logic to maintain the current project when switching accounts if it's available in the new account's scoped teams
• Added setStep to the dependency arrays in useActionSelectorState to ensure proper reactivity
• Modified query cache clearing behavior when switching projects to only remove project-specific queries while preserving project list and user data
• Added proper handling of available project IDs when authenticating

How to test?

1. Log in with an account that has access to multiple projects
2. Switch between projects and verify that the current project is maintained if available in both accounts
3. Verify that the project switcher still shows the correct list of available projects after switching
4. Check that navigation to task input works correctly after project selection

Why make this change?

This change improves the user experience when switching between projects by:

1. Maintaining context when possible (keeping the same project if available)
2. Preserving necessary data in the query cache to avoid unnecessary refetching
3. Ensuring the project switcher has the correct data available immediately

[k11kirky]

• fix: cancel on oauth doesnt work #803
• fix: discard is broken #802
• fix: o(n) requests on project switch + perisstance #801 👈 (View in Graphite)
• feat: fix multistep questions #799
• main

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[k11kirky]

Merge activity

• Feb 5, 2:16 AM UTC: A user started a stack merge that includes this pull request via Graphite.
• Feb 5, 2:19 AM UTC: Graphite rebased this pull request as part of a merge.
• Feb 5, 2:21 AM UTC: @k11kirky merged this pull request with Graphite.