chore: Revert 9875 and move disabledBehavior example in TableView docs

[LFDanLu]

Reverts #9875 since there are some design questions about chevron hover behavior and some unintended behavior where non-actionable disabled rows have hover styles when selectionMode="none". Ideally useTableRow would check for whether or not to add "row expand" action onto a row but we need to revisit why onAction was deprecated from the hook

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[snowystinger]

We should align the TreeView and TableView onAction's in the stories so there is less confusion