[Doc] Document backpressure for the C++ streaming exec plan

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This is described somewhat in #12228

We should update our user guide for datasets to help users understand how much RAM they should expect to use and what parameters (if any) are available for tuning.

Reporter: Weston Pace / @westonpace

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Todd Farmer / @toddfarmer:
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