[R] Update binding for add_filename() NSE function to error if used on Table

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ARROW-15260 adds a function which allows the user to add the filename as an output field. This function only makes sense to use with datasets and not tables. Currently, the error generated from using it with a table is handled by handle_augmented_field_misuse(). Instead, we should follow one of the suggestions from the PR to detect this when the function is called.

Reporter: Nicola Crane / @thisisnic

_{Note: This issue was originally created as ARROW-17356. Please see the migration documentation for further details.}

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Neal Richardson / @nealrichardson:
See also ARROW-18286

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