[branch-4.0] pick some arrow memory leak fix to branch-4.0 (#66462)

[yiguolei]

What problem does this PR solve?

pick #64799 #66437

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #xxx

Related PR: #xxx

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• Test

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    • Previous test can cover this change.
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• Behavior changed:

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• Does this need documentation?

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• Confirm the release note
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Increment line coverage 56.25% (27/48) 🎉
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