[VL][branch-1.7] Backport: Fix build issues reported by weekly jobs (#12321)

[philo-he]

What changes are proposed in this pull request?

Backport three PRs. The last two PRs are also required for fixing CI failures.

• [VL] Fix build issues reported by weekly jobs #12321
• [VL][CI] Fix Spark 4.1 CI crash: isolate libgluten's bundled libstdc++ #12557
• [VL] Respect INSTALL_PREFIX in Velox native builds #12331

Yuan helped fix another issue related to unexpectedly building Arrow in Velox setup script: #12611

How was this patch tested?

CI.

Was this patch authored or co-authored using generative AI tooling?

No.

[philo-he]

Ubuntu weekly build failed:

CMake Error at cmake_modules/BuildUtils.cmake:297 (target_link_libraries):
  Target "arrow_testing_objlib" links to:

    Boost::process

  but the target was not found.  Possible reasons include:

    * There is a typo in the target name.
    * A find_package call is missing for an IMPORTED target.
    * An ALIAS target is missing.

Call Stack (most recent call first):
  src/arrow/CMakeLists.txt:1124 (add_arrow_lib)

@zhouyuan, do you happen to know the reason? I remember the main branch has a similar issue before your fix.

[zhouyuan]

@philo-he IIRC the issue is from velox side, in their setup script will try to build arrow but cmake file is not correct, in my fix I was using gluten local build arrow script

[philo-he]

@philo-he IIRC the issue is from velox side, in their setup script will try to build arrow but cmake file is not correct, in my fix I was using gluten local build arrow script

Thank you so much for the fix! Do we also need to fix the main branch to replace setup-centos9.sh with setup-ubuntu.sh? If so, could you also help fix it in main branch? Thanks!

gluten/ep/build-velox/src/get-velox.sh

Line 68 in 302e086

sed -i "s|run_and_time install_arrow||g" scripts/setup-centos9.sh