fix(ios): avoid replaying alert mutations

[billsbooth]

Summary

Prevent XCTest-backed alert accept and alert dismiss from being replayed after a lost response. Default/explicit get stays retryable. Six transport regressions fail before the fix and pass afterward.

Scope

12 files: action-aware runner traits across client, session and recovery; transport/provider/startup regressions; shared TypeScript/Swift golden table; help and command docs. No native alert-identity change or QA driver version update.

Validation

Commit 53d9f01f4ccde3665d73b76fd5441ddb64a00d97: pnpm check:affected --run passed (2,915 related tests). All CI green. macOS: 191 native tests passed, including the golden table. iOS: 77 native tests plus live alert get/dismiss/accept outcomes and session cleanup passed. Local host bootstrap hung; separate Settings replay needed attempt 2 after a capture timeout.

Verification

Observability audit: existing command IDs correlate dispatch and status recovery. Tests preserve typed lifecycle/recovery details and prove one mutation dispatch. No additional payload logging, secrets, or configuration.

Automated Test Plan

• Run pnpm exec vitest run --project apple-runner packages/platform-apple/src/runner/__tests__/runner-recovery-wiring.test.ts packages/platform-apple/src/runner/__tests__/runner-command-traits.test.ts; expect no accept/dismiss replay for accepted, started, or completed lost-response states; queries still retry.
• Run the macOS host XCTest lane; require testAlertReadOnlyClassificationMatchesGoldenTable to pass.
• Build Agent Device Tester using examples/test-app/README.md; follow docs/agents/device-verification.md for fresh source/isolated simulator setup. Keep the same --platform ios --udid <owned-udid> --session alert-retry on every command. Open com.callstack.agentdevicelab, navigate Settings → Open automation lab, click id="automation-open-alert", then alert get and alert dismiss; expect Alert result: cancelled. Reopen and alert accept; expect Alert result: accepted. Retain command/status evidence; close the original session. Executed in iOS CI.

[thymikee]

Looks good at 53d9f01. Accept and dismiss are no longer retried after a lost response, and the tests cover that case. CI and the live iOS alert checks passed; ready to merge.