fix(updates): prevent deadlock when relaying channel difference

[ernado]

Problem

A circular wait can hang update processing between the two worker goroutines:

• The internalState worker (main Run loop) is the only reader of internalQueue. While processing a batch in applyCombined → handleChannel → channelState.Push, it blocks writing into a channel's bounded updates queue (cap 10) when full.
• The channelState worker, inside getDifference, blocks writing diff.OtherUpdates into s.out (= internalQueue, cap 10) when full — and it's full precisely because the main worker is stuck above and not draining it.

Both selects only release on ctx.Done(), so updates stop flowing until shutdown.

The same hazard is already mitigated in the diffTimeout wait branch of getDifference ("Ignoring updates to prevent *internalState worker from blocking"), but the actual s.out <- hand-off had no such protection.

Fix

Add channelState.sendOut, which keeps draining the channel's own input queue while waiting for the worker to accept the hand-off. This guarantees the main worker can always complete its Push and return to its select to drain internalQueue, so the cycle can no longer form.

This reuses the existing drain-and-ignore pattern; dropped updates are recovered by a future getChannelDifference call (or the idle timeout), so there is no permanent loss.

Safety

• getDifference/sendOut run only on the single channelState.Run goroutine, so there is no concurrent read of s.updates and no new data race (verified with -race).
• s.out now has exactly one send site.
• The only new behavior — possibly dropping concurrent channel updates during the hand-off — is identical in kind to the pre-existing diffTimeout drain and is recoverable via the gap mechanism.

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Codecov Report

❌ Patch coverage is 0% with 16 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.
✅ Project coverage is 69.66%. Comparing base (5214d45) to head (daca24f).
⚠️ Report is 3 commits behind head on main.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
telegram/updates/state_channel.go	0.00%	16 Missing ⚠️

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