v0.9.11 Upsert, Huggingface integration, and bug fixes

What's Changed

• chore: do not run test on intel mac anymore, and reduce python target by @eddyxu in #1875
• fix: improve ability to control dynamo creds cache by @albertlockett in #1870
• feat: add support for accepting Substrait ExtendedExpression messages as filters by @westonpace in #1863
• fix: remove lru_cache from instance method and add lint to catch future issues by @chebbyChefNEQ in #1883
• feat(python): lance write huggingface dataset directly by @eddyxu in #1882
• feat: add "merge insert" operation based on merge operation in other databases by @westonpace in #1647
• ci: bump GHA to macos-14 to use free m1 GHA by @eddyxu in #1886
• fix: make avx512 fp16 a runtime check by @albertlockett in #1884
• fix: shard batch iterator can reads partial batches by @eddyxu in #1889
• feat: customize to tensor function in pytorch dataset by @eddyxu in #1890

Full Changelog: v0.9.10...v0.9.11