fix(scripts/rm_set_option.py): make more usable in downstream projects

[bryangingechen]

Two changes:

• Only attempt to process lakefile.lean if it exists.
• Added a new --directories command-line option to specify which directories to scan (copied from dag_traversal.py, and passed directly to that script).

cf. https://leanprover.zulipchat.com/#narrow/channel/113488-general/topic/backward.2EisDefEq.2ErespectTransparency/near/590911742

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[github-actions]

PR summary 2113b17760

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Declarations diff

No declarations were harmed in the making of this PR! 🐙

You can run this locally as follows

## summary with just the declaration names:
./scripts/pr_summary/declarations_diff.sh <optional_commit>

## more verbose report:
./scripts/pr_summary/declarations_diff.sh long <optional_commit>

The doc-module for scripts/pr_summary/declarations_diff.sh contains some details about this script.

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No changes to technical debt.

This script lives in the mathlib-ci repository. To run it locally, from your mathlib4 directory:

git clone https://github.com/leanprover-community/mathlib-ci.git ../mathlib-ci
../mathlib-ci/scripts/reporting/technical-debt-metrics.sh pr_summary

• The relative value is the weighted sum of the differences with weight given by the inverse of the current value of the statistic.
• The absolute value is the relative value divided by the total sum of the inverses of the current values (i.e. the weighted average of the differences).