feat: added OPENID_REDIRECT_EXACT_MATCH config to enforce stricter redirect checks

[deepakprabhakara]

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[vinckr]

thanks!
fixed some style issues in the doc (we can fix these as we go along to streamline the polis docs into the rest of our docs)