chore: update github actions dependencies

[SiebelsTim]

All of these were throwing deprecations warnings regarding node16. None of them had backwards incompatible changes.

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Further comments

[Demonsthere]

👍 good job, i had focused on stuff breaking the ci in my last update, didnt really look at the deprecation warning 😅

[SiebelsTim]

:D

I only noticed it when looking at the errors on my last PR :D