Port #[rustc_must_implement_one_of] to attribute parser

[Bryntet]

Stumbled upon a weird (bug ?) behaviour while making this PR

it seems like it is possible to reach check_attr.rs checks without the attribute allowed target checks having already been finished, I added a comment about how to reproduce this in check_attr.rs

otherwise good to note is that a bunch of code was moved from compiler/rustc_hir_analysis/src/collect.rs to check_attr.rs

r? @JonathanBrouwer

[rustbot]

Some changes occurred in compiler/rustc_hir/src/attrs

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Some changes occurred in compiler/rustc_attr_parsing

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Some changes occurred in compiler/rustc_passes/src/check_attr.rs

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