feat(action-bar-icon): Add disabled state support

[ascii5]

issue: #13742

[codecov-commenter]

Codecov Report

❌ Patch coverage is 75.00000% with 2 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.
✅ Project coverage is 89.93%. Comparing base (ec5b45b) to head (91715e8).
⚠️ Report is 190 commits behind head on main.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
...ackages/vant/src/action-bar-icon/ActionBarIcon.tsx	75.00%	2 Missing ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

@@            Coverage Diff             @@
##             main   #13744      +/-   ##
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+ Coverage   89.60%   89.93%   +0.33%     
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  Files         257      257              
  Lines        7013     7056      +43     
  Branches     1736     1749      +13     
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+ Hits         6284     6346      +62     
+ Misses        384      374      -10     
+ Partials      345      336       -9     

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[chenjiahan]

Thank you!