feat(QueryBuilder): add whereInBulk

[elpete]

Summary

• add whereInBulk and whereNotInBulk, including dynamic andWhere... and orWhere... shortcuts
• serialize bulk values into one LONGVARCHAR binding
• infer a common SQL type from raw values or matching typed query parameters
• translate inferred types to native SQL Server, PostgreSQL, MySQL/MariaDB, Oracle, and SQLite types
• preserve an explicit third-argument sqlType override for database-specific or precision-sensitive columns
• keep Derby explicitly unsupported for non-empty bulk collections
• document database feature and version requirements

Why

Large whereIn collections create one database parameter per value. SQL Server rejects statements above its 2,100-parameter limit. whereInBulk provides an explicit opt-in path that uses one serialized binding, so regular whereIn behavior and performance remain unchanged.

Refs #109.

Validation

• added the inference contract and per-grammar expectations first and confirmed they failed before implementation
• box testbox run on Lucee 6: 2,762 passed, 0 failed, 3 skipped
• GitHub Actions: all 18 checks passed, including native BoxLang with full-null on and off
• box run-script format:check
• git diff --check
• executed the emitted SQLite JSON_EACH form directly against SQLite