[3.9] Use older libffi as new is not working with 3.9 on windows

[schribl]

Checklist

• Used a personal fork of the feedstock to propose changes
• Bumped the build number (if the version is unchanged)
• Reset the build number to 0 (if the version changed)
• Re-rendered with the latest conda-smithy (Use the phrase @conda-forge-admin, please rerender in a comment in this PR for automated rerendering)
• Ensured the license file is being packaged.

Port of #778 to 3.9

[schribl]

@conda-forge-admin, please rerender

[conda-forge-admin]

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I just wanted to let you know that I linted all conda-recipes in your PR (recipe/meta.yaml) and found it was in an excellent condition.

I do have some suggestions for making it better though...

For recipe/meta.yaml:

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I considered the following status checks when analyzing this PR:

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